Healing Relationships Using FasterEFT
It’s a big topic, but relationships – whether they are romantic relationships, work relationships, family and friends, or even the relationship with yourself – have a powerful effect on the quality of our lives. As humans, we are designed to form strong bonds with others; and when those bonds are painful or destructive, it can create a devastating spiral that affects all other areas of our lives.
Many people find that they are constantly attracted to a certain type of person, despite conscious efforts to avoid the traits that have hurt them in the past. For example, repeatedly choosing abusers, users, narcissists, or cheaters – even though they had no idea when the relationship first started, that the person fitted that pattern. So, what’s happening behind the scenes?
We learn who we are and how the world works by our early experiences. All our relationships as adults are determined by the experiences we had with others in our earliest childhood. The people who raised us; the experiences we had with others at school, in church, extended family, friends, and everyone else with whom we came into contact in early childhood, contributed to our “blueprint” of what a relationship should be. Whether it’s a romantic relationship, a business relationship, friendships, relationships with strangers, or the relationship with ourselves, the blueprint is coming from those early childhood experiences – the references held in the subconscious.
How it Works
As we experience life, from birth, the subconscious is constantly interpreting each experience, and then filing that information for future reference. Every new experience is filtered through the existing information. And, as we go about our lives, the subconscious is constantly referring to that information – those “facts” – and then affecting the brain and body accordingly. It causes sensations, feelings and emotions in the body, which determine not only how we respond and react to others, but who we are attracted to. For example, if childhood experiences were interpreted by the subconscious to mean: “If you love me, you abandon me” – then the subconscious will guide the conscious mind, through sensations and feelings in the body, to be attracted to the type of person who shows signs they will abandon. Now, the conscious mind will usually be completely unaware of this. The subconscious picks up gestures, body language, and micro-expressions that indicate the familiar traits of a person who will treat you in the same way you were treated as a child.
How to Solve it
Using FasterEFT, you can find the original “blueprint” for relationships, and change those childhood memories. You can change those memories to where you were treated as you should have been treated. Bearing in mind the subconscious doesn’t know the difference between reality and imagination, you can change those early childhood memories to where you were treated with love, affection, support, and respect. This gives your subconscious new references. As a result, it will then be referring to the “facts” that you are loved, respected, and safe. It will be referring to the “proof” that love means affection, value, support, compassion, kindness, respect, and security. And that will result in your subconscious creating different emotions and feelings in your body – and you will then be attracted to people who will treat you in that way. It will also change the way you relate to, and respond to, others.
Who can Benefit From Faster EFT
Anyone who would like to change any aspect of their relationships with others can use FasterEFT to create the relationships they want. Whether it’s becoming more assertive in business relationships, more patient with children or other family members, finding the ideal romantic partner, or healing an existing romantic relationship, the solution is: using FasterEFT to change the subconscious references that are providing the resources for your current experiences with other people.
With FasterEFT, you need never be controlled by anything outside of you again! You get to decide how you wish to experience all areas of your life – every moment of your life.
Here are just a few of the conditions that can benefit from FasterEFT:
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